You're only six weeks or so into the separation, right?

Still getting used to the new reality, exploring what it's like to be on your own again?

Give it some time. Use this break to think about yourself, and getting your own needs met. Since he's not indicating he's thinking, or that he could want to get back together, you don't have to worry at this time about who he really is. You can wait to see which guy shows up if your contact with him improves.

And yes, I realize this is advice I've been getting and not doing a great job of following. Sometimes I feel like Alice in Wonderland. smile

Last edited by Maybell; 07/27/14 01:26 PM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.