Yes I grabbed the book this morning and will be re reading it today.

I responded to the scolds by talking about communication which I think is wrong. In retrospect I realize she's dodging things that way. I told her some important things I wanted an answer to and she responded the wrong way.

I need to explain my statements better so they illicit a response. If I get another "well wouldn't it be nice if you had just said that" I will have to respond "well I'm telling you now so let's discuss it".

Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.