Here's my take, I would give the personal items. Bagged and ready, but then I'm good like that then say the other things need to go via l or mediation or anything you fancy.
She will more than likely be hacked off, but meh! You need furniture etc too, my 1h wanted everything wanted me to deliver 40km and I had the child. we were taking mostly free furniture he hated all our married life!
I told 1h he could collect anything he wanted within x time so long as he collected and payed for ute truck etc. he never collected. I replaced items he said he really wanted then later like years I sent to the tip!
The whole making you the bad guy works in my stich with 2h, his whole family is buying it. I'm pretty sure I'm a scarlett woman who had multi affairs and left him for om, his story re w1. The only one with op, is not me!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
then say the other things need to go via l or mediation or anything you fancy. 