By the way the last post was written before I had a chance to read anything past Wonka's post. Thanks everyone for your support and I feel very put upon. What I "fear" is her reneging on the house going to me. For that I was willing to give up asking for half of her retirement plans, seeking sole custody (at this time) of D14 and not seeking spousal support which I probably could get seeing as she left me when I was making less then $2,000 a month while she is taking home more than $5,000 a month after taxes. This is the first time I have made less than her in the last 18 years! I really think I could get it. That is what I fear but you know what? She is going to do whatever she wants with no reguard to any pervious agreements. She proved that when she said she wasn't going to file and a week later did!
No fear, no worrying about what she may or may not do. Thanks for the reality check everyone!
