Thanks Cadet.

My bomb drop was in January 2013, so 18 months ago and counting. Or rather given up counting and focusing on self and children.

As a matter of interest when in replay does the affair start and is it normal or when do they try to reconnect with their children and come home then panic and run off again. I guess this could be cycling and it is sure confusing me, and the children (daughter 18 and son 12 but son is mentally handicapped and autistic and has developmental age of a 4 year old).

Hope things are working out for you. How long have you been doing this for?

Thanks.
mel