LRT seems to be doing it's magic and I'm closely for looking for positive signs. One week ago he was hardly speaking to me and VERY cautious. He went out, did his own thing, avoided me. Now I've noticed he seeks me out to talk to me, tell me something funny in his day, texts me to see how my day is, asks if I needed anything at the store, even invited me along today to the farm he was taking d to. I declined saying I appreciated the invitation but had made other plans. He said no problem and went on his way. I went out and took care of me (mani/pedi!!!) and came home to a quiet house to read. When they came home he came up to chat with me, tell me how their day went. Then later I took a chance and asked if he had plans for dinner and suggested we go for sushi, if he was up for it. He immediately said, sounds great, let me look up a good place. He took my daughter and I out, laughed, made jokes, was very take charge but not over bearing and we had a GREAT time. The only reference to everything going on was "I really need to exercise. With everything going on I'm ballooning". I just said, "well, you seem to really like those long hikes in the mountains" to which he said, "yeah but it's just so freaking HOT lately". I just listened, said nothing further. Now we are home all sitting on the couch together, even the dog, watching Jumanji.
These are all positive, right? He was just out looking at places to move into the other day. I'm confused. No talk of the future or anything. How do I proceed? Just keep on doing what I'm doing? Help!!
