I do that and I can be certain that the D will be speeding up and there will be a lot more animosity. If I don't, I may find myself wishing I had fought for more of what I did want and DESERVE.
Don't "do" or "not do" something out of fear. That was a mistake that I made. I would make choices or let XW have things just because I didn't want to p!ss her off any more than she already was. You have to look out for you. If you don't, she will walk all over you.
She is angry at you anyways and thinks you are probably the world's biggest a-hole. That is part of MLC. She is angry and will stay angry regardless of what you do.
Stand your ground man.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
