This was my thinking also. So I am making sure that home is more pleasant for her as well as clean. I have been on top of everything and made it as relaxing as I can. I keep fresh flowers in the room for her, and I try to go the extra mile. I act as gentlemanly as possible opening doors and try to let her see how much she means to me. We do go out alone a lot now and I try to find interesting things I think she would like. I don't push and always ask for her opinion when feasible. I still get a lot of I don't knows but she is slowly making suggestions. If I don't agree with something I make sure to talk it thorough so we can at least see each other's point of view. I know the romance will come later and I am still trying to come to terms with that but I count myself as lucky. She wants to be here I just have to help her see that she is needed.
As far as any medication she refuses to see or talk with anyone, belie me I have tried. I have tried to get her to talk about her problems with me, the kids, herself all with a resounding no so I am not pushing this.
