Hurt and Confused 2

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Sandi the confusing part to me is that I don't know if there is OM..she is always at home or at work, she really doesn't do rebellious things like a teen, just the im turning 40 thing..oh and divorcing me lol. today her dad wanted me to go to his work to talk, he tells me that he hates what is happening and that he KNOWS I was a good husband who sometimes was selfish but enough for divorce, he says he is sad that he is loosing a son. He also told me that he knows I love my W. He says that right now she only sees the bad and that she is putting up a front. Case in point, today when I went to the house to get my stuff she was acting like she was sooo happy, when I left I forgot something and came home and saw her on the phone crying. Then I noticed that she threw away all of our wedding albums and pictures of us...what the hell...I cant believe she would throw that away as if nothing. I just feel like I may need to move on and except it is over.