I want to tell her no, she can't come tomorrow. That she can make a list and send it to my lawyer and we'll send back what is acceptable.
Then, you need to tell her NO.
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Tell her to make a list of what is left here that she wants and send it to my lawyer and we will come to an agreement through our lawyers about what is "Right", morally or otherwise.
Sounds very reasonable. You are going through a divorce. YOU didn't sign on for this.
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I do that and I can be certain that the D will be speeding up and there will be a lot more animosity. If I don't, I may find myself wishing I had fought for more of what I did want and DESERVE.
This is your fear Matt. She has hurt you before and you are tentative to put yourself in harm's way. BUT, you now have an attorney. Let him do his job. Remind yourself that you will be ok and it doesn't have to erupt on YOUR side of the street. I believe you need to set this boundary. Consider me one person who has your back. :-)
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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