If you don't see her as someone who is desirable to ANYBODY, regardless of marital status, then you're not fighting for HER. You're fighting to WIN.
Just the opposite. I have been accused of putting her on a pedestal. I have always seen her as a wonderful woman, who is smart, empathetic and very beautiful.
I just feel that this guy has focused on her looks and the fact that at 53 he has never been happy. But it's not about him it's about me and my wife.
I am not " fighting " to win, he is...
Everyone feels that as soon as she divorces me, goes with him, possibly marries him, the minute those early romantic feelings start to fade, he will cheat on her or leave her...he has a history of having affair after affair, but my WW says " none of those stories are true" despite evidence and proof to the contrary.
I Have been with her since I was 19 and she was 20 and only her. I never even considered myself remotely attracted to anyone else.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
