Finding my way - part 3

[KGirl]

What IM client do you use? I found it helpful to unfollow my H (rather than unfriend or block) on Facebook and then remove him from my list on gchat so I wouldn't obsess over knowing if he was online or what he was doing - if there's a way you can make it so you can't see his status, without going to the extreme of blocking him/him knowing you've removed him from your list, maybe that would help you in resisting the urge to contact him.