Meghan - I know this is hard but please stay the course. If you are feeling discouraged and need some recent success read through Thornton's threads. By reaching out - which is what WE want to do so they don't forget us- we show that we cannot honor their request of Space.
Keep on with your GAL. I know it's easier said than done but trust me it does get 'easier'. I don't know that it will ever be easy. I still get upset daily but my periods of sadness that used to ruin my day in the beginning now just get a few words under my breath and I move along. In the end, your H will do what he wants. Is it what we think is best? Depends what his choice is. Be the best you can be. No doubt if you do that he is sure a fool...