This is some powerful stuff about women you're letting out here. No complaints. Just saying...
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Oad, I apologize for the hijack. I suppose it lies upon you to determine which (WAW or WW) your W is. Like Sandi says if she's a WW she will be in complete rebellion. And, our friendliness are tests of your will power to resist caving in. Are your W changes this drastic? IMO, I would rather deal with a WAW with possible OM than a WW with possible OM. While the line may appear ambiguous to you and perhaps other LBH about the mindset between a WAW and WW, they are succinctly different. I think that WW are driven more by anger than just hurt. They've moved past all the the hurt and pain and have progressed into a another level--rage. JMHO. I've been there too.
Do you value yourself enough (if your W is a WW) to put your foot down and give some tough love? Even if it means losing her. Or, are you hiding behind a false sense of strength that she can topple you down by testing you with one night of passionate sex? It's dark and twisted but women are capable of such things. It's not because we enjoy it but because we feel we've been pushed that far and because we aren't in our right minds in this state.