WAW having an A but she denies it #2

[Train]

I should also add, sho, that I exposed my H's A to his best friend, who also was the person H moved in with during our separation. I also told his BFF that I would be willing to work on my M if and when H ended his A.

His BFF promised his house would not be a "bachelor pad" for H. But it ended up that he DID allow H to have OW over there for a sexual rendezvous or 12.

What did I expect, right? OF COURSE he would allow that, even though I asked him to support my efforts to work on saving my M.

But it DID change my relationship with H's BFF, who I had always considered a friend, too.

We will still talk, but I have lost an immense amount of respect for him. Which is very sad because he and I used to talk even more than he and H would. And now that H is home, I'm wondering if BFF regrets supporting the A. It changed a lot.