Another question, one which I asked before. I know my W has confided in one friend, and probably a few others. They are getting together for a girl's weekend in two weeks. One of the friends is divorced (husband cheater on her), one is separate and treats her H like chit, another has a rocky marriage and the fourth is in a good spot. Three of these friends knew my W from college and know the ex BF (current OM). They hated him. He treated her very poorly in college. But, I know they don't know about the A and they will want to console her and tell her to do what makes her happy. If a D makes her happy, they will support her. But, I doubt they would be so direct and supporting if they knew the full story. How can my W possibly be thinking straight if she is having an A? She is painting me in a very negative light (I am sure) so part of me wants to just warn them to get the full story.
Bad idea, right? Or is this laying down the law and just showing her that I am not a doormat.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
