I definitely won't be pushing talks in that direction if she's not ready.

My concern is that a lot of this is happening as she's explaining she's not ready to return and plans on renewing her lease so a part of me suspects she's trying to test my availability or keep me within reach.

She still wears the wedding rings and told me she can't see me out of her life long term, she just has things to sort through.

I think it's time I re read the book.

Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.