Train, how did you finally lay down the law? What caused your H to come back? And with whom did he have the A? Just trying to learn from you and take some solace perhaps in how things worked for you? I vacillate between being a strong papabear for my kids to being angry due to her lies and deception to just pure bewilderment that the W that I love could do this to her family.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed