Thanks Cristy. I watched a lot of the video's on you.tube. Maybe you can send that link to my wife.

She says I'm passive/aggressive.

I had to move out. I don't know what to do. M wife is always seems angry at me. I refuse to engage her when she attacks and that sends her into a rage.

She says I don't love her. I do. But I'm not going to reward her bad behavior.

Every night I pray and ask God to change her but I don't think He is listening. She is convinced that I am having an affair and no matter how much I deny the accusation I can't change her mind. She refuses to listen to me. I think divorce will become only option.