Sandi its not confusing, I appreciate your advice because it comes from my wifes point of view...even though there is no evidence as of yet for O/M. Like I told 25 years, whenever she is warm and I warm back she then pulls away...I see it that she is not ready if ever to warm up and continue. I hope you are not offended by my confusion. im still following your advice with a little bit of 25 years. I think there is a time for your advice and a time for 25's. Im trying to find a middle ground. What I do know for sure is that in the past your advice was dead on...many blessings and prayers that your mom recovers!!! and thank you for your help during this time, im sure its hard to when your mom is ill.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14