The 5LL book won't help you. That's basically for those in GOOD marriages.

What goals have you had to try and address what issues your W had with you?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER