Well, I messed it up quite a bit. Cell phone bill due tomorrow, saw that she'd begun texting OM again and asked her about it. She says she's dealing with him missing her, but that not started up.
She's obviously furious that I've been looking at the bill and could see she was texting him. She's going to get a pre-paid now.
I should have listened to my gut to stay silent, but I couldn't help it. Idiot.
Me: 40 W: 40 22 Years together, 14 Married D8 + D7 Aug 2012 - Separated Sep / Oct - Back Together May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed Now - WAW moving out