Remember she is also AT LEAST as nervous about seeing you - and about how the weekend will go down - as you are about seeing her. She has feelings, too. Lots of them.
The difference? You've been mulling this over, and you've developed a plan. You're A LOT more prepared than you probably feel. And that's going to help keep you calm and centered.
Starsky's right: you have incredible instincts. Trust yourself.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014