Aside from the lawyer conversation, I noted that you said your wife did all the cleaning and cooking. I have to say step up. I am a single mom of four kids. I do the majority of the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and home maintenance . My ex doesn't see the kids often enough to actually raise them, so that is my job too. My house isn't the most organized but my kids for the most part are well mannered, help when they aren't in school or working. I also hold down a full time job.

It can be done. No time to wonder about it all. You can and will be able to get it done. Maybe this was one of your wife's issues?

kat

Last edited by kat727; 07/26/14 12:02 AM.
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