I am not going to waver. But if my wife plans something, i say no thanks and GAL but my kids want me to go with them. I don't want to hurt my kids. Also, what about family dinners at night? Do I just not do them anymore, or should I do them with the family but only be "nice" to my W. Do I ask her about her day, her trip to NYC?
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed