Yes you are. The first thing to do in DB is to understand what your M problems were in the first place. In mindsin's case, his lack of empathy and understanding of his W's feelings is the biggest issue. He doesn't want to "bring up the past" because it hurts him and doesn't see the point of it. Yet bringing up the past from his W's POV is exactly what he needs to do in order understand how she feels and how to correct things.
Rug sweeping doesn't do any good because all he's doing is sweeping his W's own feelings under it also. Add that to the fact that he had countless A's previously and harshly condemns his W for wanting to find a loving man whom she can trust and you get a one-sided, selfish way of handling a situation.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
