I'm glad you returned to update your situation. I've got a load of patience shovels to send your way.

Yes, it takes a very long time for them to disengage themselves from the ow. She's like an addiction and when he does, he'll have some withdrawal issues for a while...nothing to be overly concerned about.

You sound stronger and in a better place. How are the children doing? Is everyone enjoying the summer?

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.