Right!! I wonder if they see the irony?

I'm guessing it's more :"why does this always happen to ME?"

Sorry to hear about your sitch. Thankfully, my H had a V many years ago, or I would worry about the same thing.

Hang in there!

Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5