Artsy, isn't it ironic that when they run to escape responsibility, they end up getting more stress added on. Too bad many of them were never taught how to handle life's stresses. It often causes more. Just like your h now has the responsibility of taking care of his parents, my h got ow pregnant and has that to deal with. That's how I found out about her- she was 4 months! Not exactly the escape they were looking for, huh?