Thanks Zues! I appreciate your response and insight. It's amazing how much clearer my head is after receiving insight from others on here.

Originally Posted By: Zues126
I appreciate that we can communicate about these steps so no one is caught off guard.


Great validating statement! I had not thought of it. eek One of my biggest pitfalls is validating and empathizing. I can get so caught up in doing what I have my mind set to that I don't consider how he may feel/respond to it. So one-tracked mind...it's a bad habit but I'm training.

Hope that you're sitch is going well or at least that you are doing well. Detaching without trying to slam the door is tricky but we can do it! Thanks to the help from our fellow DBers.


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