Yeah, that's tough for me to know. I don't have intel resources at this point. I am fairly certain about OM 1 being out of the picture. It turned out he is still married and just used W for a side A and then cut her loose when he was ready. She was pretty hurt over the whole thing and according to friends / family she cut ties entirely. I can't be sure that she hasn't begun another A. She just started a new job 3 weeks ago and has been working so much that she hasn't even had more than a couple hours to spend with S outside of her every other weekend. I would hate to think she would be giving up time with S to pursue another A but can't rule anything out.
Another strange event I forgot to mention. Her brother was recently kicked out by his W and is now living with my W. BIL was having a rough year and acted like a jerk too many times and got kicked out. The part about this that worries me is that he has immediately jumped into an A of his own and constantly trying to justify his choices to everyone. I'm thinking this will only reinforce to W that what she is doing makes sense. Nothing I can do of course but just getting it in the log at this point.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10