1 step forward, 1000 steps back - part 3

[mdu]

"Plus, men are horn-dogs, yes, but we're also VERY career-focused especially when you factor in the inherent competitiveness that comes with a new promotion. I suspect that he's FAR more focused on his new job responsibilities than he is on HER right now."

Thanks for this observation Starsky, it further motivates me to step back. I know how important this new role is to him, he’s very anxious to prove himself as he’s had some challenges there the last couple of years (which partially contributed to our M problems). I have no idea if OW has this insight about his current career path and the level of pressure he is likely under but if she still has her sights on him and makes the mistake of trying to pressure him right now I imagine it could backfire for her very badly (let’s hope she does!). This is really the perfect opportunity for me to step back and just be supportive --- a good 180.