BD and 6 months later PA confirmed (2)

[Bunches]

So W was unhappy with missing S birthday at waterpark at the beginning of the month. I had planned on taking him back this last weekend but she wanted to go this time and needed us to move it to allow her availability. So on Sunday just the 3 of us are going to waterpark together to spend the day. I'm trying to focus on having fun and being carefree but unsure how to do that effectively. Also, trying not to ask W about last week. Her brother told me she didn't come home last Thursday night. She apparently decided to take a drive and ended up spending the night at a hotel two states away. Makes no sense, but I can't see what else would make sense. A ended badly over two months ago. Also, she is putting herself in a corner financially. She drew $6,000 to cash last week against her credit card and gave to her mother who apparently guilted her into borrowing the money. Things have seemed pretty pleasant when we are around each other these days but still no sign of her wanting to R.

My only question is, at this stage should I be allowing us to be around each other in these situations in order to attract her back or staying away allowing her space to come back on her own?