ok sorry Starsky . I just really beaten up and trying not to wallow. just called lawyer office and hav an appointment for monday . Just a consult . I love my wife and i would give anything not to be in this sitch but you are right I need to start thinking about me and my sons . She isnt going to .
Good man.
Dawgy, are you familiar with the Stockdale Paradox? You need to get your mind into a place where you can do the hard work necessary, despite your swirling emotions and also not wanting to lose your hope (which no one is asking you to do, just stop pursuing is all). The Stockdale Paradox is the best way of looking at times such as this that I've ever seen.
