So one of these two friends ^^^^^ talked to W last night, then IM'd me this morning.

Friend says W is messed up. (!)

W went to financial adviser trying to figure out her options. W read friend the letter I sent her. W is hung up on the fact that nowhere in the letter did I say ILY. W went on to friend about how I am hiding income and moving assets out of the country. W is looking for any excuse to end the M.

Friend said "it's not encouraging, but W's still confused about what to do."

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Meanwhile, it is not raining today after all, so we're going kayaking now. Starsky is of course, right about enjoying the bits while you can.