Wounded, it's funny how we perceive things so differently. :-)

Here's my version:

S14: Mom, why is dad acting so weird?
Mom: Why do you ask?
S14: I was trying to talk to him and just ignores me or he is busy working.
Mom: I think your dad has a lot on his mind right now.
S14: Like what?
Mom: I think he is dealing with some stuff. You know he loves you, right?
S14: Yea, but what stuff?
Mom: You need to ask dad that question. I'm sorry you feel like he is too busy or whatever. Can I help? I will try. Right now, your dad may not be able to be there for you in the way you need. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Know that. Sometimes people go through stuff. We love you very much and no one means to hurt your feelings.

The "sick" analogy was something my mom did when I was 8 and much too young really understand depression, infidelity, etc...

But, I think we can still be validating without bombarding our kids with too much information or scaring them.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson