WAW having an A but she denies it #2

[shodan]

Thanks for this advice. I suspect she will do one of three things: deny, deny and deny; say that she wants to separate and get space, while still denying the A; finally she will ask for the divorce AGAIN but actually get a lawyer. None of those feel great. Given this guy is an ex boyfriend whom she loved, she probably has convinced herself she is in love with him. They is going to cloud her mind. I know what to say about scenarios one and two. I think my answer is the same for # 3: not what I want, we both have a lot to think about, I cannot stop her from filing for a D and that my first concern is our family and our kids.