So interestingly, H sent me an innocuous text about a breakfast place he loves. I replied and we had some light text chit chat. I asked a question about work --- but not OW. It's really crazy how our sitch has unfolded. OW moved to his office literally the EXACT same week that H started a much bigger role at the company (because of someone leaving, someone who he used to butt heads with all the time so this is a HUGE opportunity for him, he's basically taking over a whole department). I don't think there's any correlation between the OW moving and H's role change/expansion as his change came up pretty suddenly. Anyway, I asked him how his first week in the new role is going and he said really crazy but he's muddling through.
So now I'm a bit doubtful that there's any relationship between H reaching out and me going dim/GAL, etc. I've been an utter mess and here he is trying to reach out to me again.
Feeling even more glad that family is coming to distract me from everything this weekend.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
