Just another point, this only becomes a problem is you D, right? If you've decided that it is your debt and will always be your debt and he doesn't have to sign for anything, there is no problem.
Am I seeing this clearly?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss