Dealing with WAW Part 3

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I think it has nothing to do with how he talks to the women here, it's the general defensiveness he displays. I'm a woman, I have very similar problems with wanting to "explain myself." Anytime anyone pointed something out as I said earlier, I went into protect my ego mode by explaining and challenging. (I'll show them how smart I am was the underlying motive)

I didn't need to explain and challenge I needed to drink a long, tall glass of STFU!

What I was failing to take into account was, my best thinking had gotten me here! That's a sobering thought.

Do with this as you will Pilot and JCred. As I said earlier, if you do this here and it's noticeable, chances are it's on your W's list. Take that as you will.

My suggestion is, do a search and read Mach1's posts. Doesn't matter what board or to whom, just take a day or 2 and focus on that.