Have posted in your thread...I'm so sorry!

Things here are changing. Not necessarily better or worse, just different...

Need to practice my 180s a little bit more. I realized last night that I resorted to some old behaviors. What's tricky is that I'm trying to figure out how to handle certain issues without having relationship talk! (For instance, I went to bed last night without telling him that I was going to bed. He told me he was going to stay up working on something, and I said ok...and went to bed. Old behavior that I know he doesn't like. Simple fix: Tell him I'm going to bed. Doesn't feel like detaching. Puzzling that one through!)