WAW having an A but she denies it #2

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I hear ya. My concern is my kids. I don't want to spend the next three months (possibly could take that long for her to end it) doing separate things from my W(or she does things with the kids without me). I know your view is the right way (and only way) but I am concerned about the kids.

Staying the proud papabear. Rock on.

Here's the difference with us. I have s21 college graduate living on his own.
S16 still at home anxious child on medication completely has anxiety under control at this point. Entering 11th trying to get into IVY League or Equivalent.
S21 and his Fiancée 22 are hoping to get job in the NYC and move back to our house.

So I get your concern it is the same as mine. However my sons want WW and me to stay together they are old enough to support what's going on.
To me having the kids is a great way to GAL.
I look forward to my kids being he
re. I will do everything humanly possible to spend time with them if my WW chooses to join us fine.

Maybe what you can do is the same thing make plans with the kids. I know every week where I live there are fairs etc. Tell your wife what you are all up to but don't "ask" her to come. If she asks if she can come say yes. But while at whatever activity you choose to do focus on the kids.

When an if you go to a movie with the kids and she comes let the kids sit between the two of you.