Saving my marriage by focusing on ME!

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If you make these passive aggressive attempts and be appear as a cuckold, then, they will lose respect

This is where I get totaly exhausted. How can I live in the same house with her with my S16 and soon S21 and his Fiancee21 and not come across as a Jerk but at the same time not be a cuckold.

For example last night I stayed in the MB when she got home I waited for her to come upstairs we talked for a few minutes. When she brought up OM I said, Please stop I want to hear about what you thought of the movie

This is my true sticking point. She says she has seen incredible change in me but I don't want to blow it!!

I have three sessions left with Chuck I think I will call to schedule them. But in the meantime any thoughts are appreciated.