Your boys will chose to see you as weak or strong based upon HOW you try to save your m.
If they see a man who treats himself with respect, honors his own boundaries, and will fix himself , then you can attempt to save your marriage with honor and dignity and your boys can be proud.
If you make these passive aggressive attempts and be appear as a cuckold, then, they will lose respect
And one concept you truly don't understand is what a boundary is and how to enforce it.
I plan on reading the book Boundaries this weekend.
Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
And forgiveness isn't " you stopped your A, we will never talk about it again"
You both need some major major changes if you don't want this fiasco happening again. It's not a let it be done and pretend like it never happened sort of situation .
NO ARGUMENT HERE. The MC said once we get to that point is when the work truly begins!
