question for everyone...she knows I know about the A. I drew that line that I don't want to live in an open M but I also want to work for my M and my family.
To that end, should I make the most of the time when she is here and plan a few fun family things but do nothing romantic for her. Or, does that send the wrong message that I am not standing strong and honoring what I said to her (that I know about the A and that she needs to end it so we can work on our M)?
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed