You know your H needs to pay his share of the bills while living in the house, roommates pay half! I assume your H is working so he has the money to pay his share. Not sure how to get him to pay, you will need to try to force this issue or pay all the bills yourself or ask him to leave. None of these options are good, but something has to happen.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
