Whoa, I just got caught up with this. 1Wish, I seriously hope you either grow up or your wife finds someone more deserving than you. Your wife is her own person with her own likes, dislikes, wants and needs. You have no control over her and she has no control over you.

I sincerely hope you learn something from this site before it's too late. I tried, as have many others, but I fold. Good luck.

Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014