Trying to detach

[Zues126]

Head up, be careful That to me would be interpreted as a way to get your foot back in the door, literally. By all means when finances come up you could talk about considering options to minimize your cost of living...but if she doesn't bring that up I wouldn't.

FYI- I'm currently living in my buddy's basement. My DB Coach told me to start working on a place of my own. I had planned on staying with my buddy until the D was final and I had my own income again, but she said it might look like I was just hanging out in limbo hoping she changed her mind and took me back. By getting my own place I demonstrate that I am moving on and understand this is happening enough to commit to a lease, etc.

Now I'm probably 1-2 months away from my own place and you never know, a miracle could occur. But once I see enough progress on the D to start to get a better idea of when it will be finalized and what my future income will look like I will be moving into an apartment. Unless SHE brings up moving back in for ANY reason.

Good luck Head!