Hi Julie, Before my W left, she stopped putting her check into our joint account that ALL the bills were paid from. She refused to pay the bills saying that was my job and DIDN'T TELL ME SHE STOPPED PUTTING HER CHECK IN. We ended up several hundred $ over drawn and when I found out she couldn't tell me why she didn't just tell me that the money wasn't there. Apparently I should have read her mind. That was also the day she said that she would no longer being putting any money into our joint account, knowing I didn't get paid regularly. She said even though she was at fault, she wouldn't be helping me at all until I could get paid again, not even gas for getting to work, nor would she at least put enough in to cover the amount that was overdrawn! This from the woman who didn't work for 15 years and I never once considered my pay anything but our money. She didn't care that she not only left me with NO money but hundreds in the hole! All while she was buying new dresses and shoes and bathing suits, etc. All while still living at home!
The MLCer just doesn't care. They see us as a drag on their happiness. Now that she has moved out she is still doing this, refusing to pay the cost of getting her phone removed from our family plan and upgrading which showed up on my bill since she did it BEFORE changing to her own plan. That's $100 she is much better able to pay but still refuses to do so! Protect yourself. Separate your money before he destroys your finances!
