Hurt and Confused 2

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Here is where im confused, sandi mentioned to be indifferent for now, not always be available...so since I was always available she would eventually get cold again, then I would pull back and she would then open up to me, it really confused me. 25 I know I sound like a whinner to you but infront of my wife I show no signs of it, when I would leave I would excuse myself and wish her a good night. on a positive note we haven't faught in a while. I know that a friend from work wants to rent her townhome to my W, yes it will save her money and im for renting out the house, IT HURTS LIKE HELL but ill do it. Another thing when she mentioned it to me I think I forgot to say that my response was calmly saying "I know this is hard on you but together we will get throug h it." I then told her godnight and left. I just feel hopless sometimes because she filed and is moving out on her own, I feel sometimes like maybe she really is done with the marriage. I know im being negative but im sure back when you where in my shoes you must have felt the same, how long did your sitch last? did you ever get divorced?